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Writing and speaking about people with disabilities from Pauline Baker on behalf of the Social Action Committee for the Multiple Sclerosis Society
At a meeting for the Social Action Committee for the MS Society, we discussed the ongoing problem of common courtesy extended (or not extended) to persons in wheelchairs and/or scooters. Most people try to be helpful but forget to ask the person in an assistive device first if they need the help. At times, it ends in more frustration on both sides. If in a buffet line, it would be best for anyone wanting to assist us, to ask first before simply
handling things on their own. I am capable of helping myself to food items and do not appreciate someone behind me taking over serving my food for me without my requesting the help. The other degrading thing that happens in a buffet line when in wheelchair, scooter or walker is people walking across in front of you as if you are not there. I have almost hit someone walking in front of me while moving foreward in my scooter. They without exception, are annoyed if reminded not to go in front of people, whether they are mobile or not. I have had people even lean on my wheelchair arm or back when passing by to give themselves support when passing by. We prize our personal space the same as able-bodied persons do.
When waiting for an elevator - when a person in a wheelchair is waiting, it would be appreciated if when an available elevator stops, we be allowed to get on since we have been waiting there through several elevators when people just walk past us as if we were not waiting there.
Accessible parking permits. People need a reminder to remember to have it displayed
prominently when parked in designated spots so it is readily visible and save any misunderstandings about eligibility to park there. Some disabled persons with permits do not know that they do not need to put money in a parking meter if they are going to be away for the time on the meter.
One other most upsetting thing that happens when in a wheelchair is that people tend to look at your support person or anyone with you and speak to them without acknowledging the person in the wheelchair. A lot of times it is assumed that the disabled person has a cognitive disability and are not worth talking to. The person in the wheelchair could be the interesting one but you'd never know because you assumed he or she had nothing to offer.
People basically don't mean to be disrespectful, but maybe for the ones who are, this may be a gentle reminder to think before they act. These seem to be universal in occurence.
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